Is there ANY way to try to convince my souse to get a Vasectomy? Between us we have 7 kids (2 adopted)
we have 4 that live in the home and one together (a new baby). we both say we are done but he does secretly wish for 1 more son. but he knows age and money he can not and so we are done, im SO done...but he feels it'll"take away his manhood" and really really feels this way. he'd rather have eh ok sex with a stupid condom then amazing blow ur mind sex we uste to always have when we were trying for our daughter. ANY way I can convince him. I've tried bribing! I REALLY hate the anxiety over what if condoms dont' work and i can no longer do birthcontroll (health issue) or have the money to get an IUD or go under myself or time off work after a surgery and i have bad reactions to anesthesia so im so scared to go under... but his insurance will cover 100% of his and he'd be back to work the next day!