Is there an easy way of making yourself fall out of love?
27 Answers to "Is there an easy way of making yourself fall out of love?"
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Forgive.
Forget.
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not if it's real love. it's more about accepting the fact and living on from day to day. it's what makes you great, that wonderful capacity to love. still hurts though.
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After a year it still hasn't faded one bit.Like (1)
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then i admire your heart. it is great that you have that. to suffer is to be human and it brings wisdom, or so they tell me
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Being in love whether it is with what you cannot have or don't want, is a gift, much more so than those not able to be in love because they denied the feeling out of existence :-)
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You're right. It is a gift.
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When you fall for someone greater you will find it will pass on, but if you find yourself comparing to, then maybe that person does not compare to? It is not a curse :-)
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Yup... invite a friend to join you both... that should change things...
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Oh god, I wish.
In my experience it never goes away. There are pieces of my heart I will never get back. I just have to accept that and try to be happy from day to day.Like (3)
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I feel that same way.
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Nipple clamps
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That would make me fall head over heels.
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I figured it would put you over the edge
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The French refined this method with what is euphemistically referred to as "sleep therapy". It was used very effectively on a teenage boy who fell madly and passionately in love with a much older woman. His parents and other officials disapproved intensely, so basically they just kept him drugged up to the eyeballs for nearly a decade, at the end of which he could hardly remember her.
This is a well known case but I can't remember the names involved. Happened in early 70s I think.Like (2)
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May have to try that. Lol.
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No, but sometimes you fall in love with someone else and forget about the other person
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I can hope
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I did this once, and I have the best bf a girl can have now, so I guess it was ok
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I feel like you shouldnt want that for yourself. Keep loving him, and feel good about yourself knowing that you let go of someone you love. Someone, one day, will then appreciate your kind heart, and it will feel so natural and right for you! I promise. Excercise often, it will help you a lot in the process. Your soul mate will find you, just dont wait, it will happen itself.
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I know this but still haven't yet accepted it.
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Open a trap door?
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It's all in the mind. If you become aware enough of your thought patterns coming from the past, to stop them in their tracks and dismiss them, while replacing with a though from the present, you'll be surprised. One or two days. No matter how intense! And this is not limited to this scenario. It applies to all.
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I agree in concept, but not about you one or two days to get past it.Like (1)
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for me it's seeing the old boyfriend with a new girl...does not matter if she is pretty or ugly, old or young. Does it for me every time.
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Yeah just keep falling for it.
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Catch a really bad virus so that you can't think about anything other than how miserable you are...for at least three months.
That would be the easier way.....Like (2)
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no, i tried.... if you really want to know about it i made a story/confession.
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I'll check it out. Thanks
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yw ^.^
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Easy way? Fall in love with someone else. That's a short term fix though
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Can't even get myself to look at anyone else.
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:( I've been there. Let the time pass, you'll be better off eventually
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No you just have to suffer for as long as it takes. The pain normally stops after 2 to 4 years
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2-4 years? Well, I've got 1 year so far.
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I wish
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Look hard at the truth but its still not ever easy.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by justeasygoing Jan 17th, 2013 at 3:12PM
Fall in love w/someone else.
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