This reminds me a story I heard once-
A teen's eight year old sister walks in with a pillow tied to her back and front.
The teen asks, "Why are u wearing pillows?"
The little girl replies, "The pillow in the front is for the boys who try to stab me in the heart and the one on my back is for the friends who will stab me from behind..."
Gossip isn't always negative, backbiting is.
I don't think so.
hurt feelings and cat fights :D
both are inevitable...........