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Is there such thing as being able to 'unlove' someone?

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I think a person can see another clearly, honestly.Re-evaluate their thinking & say no. No to the whole relationship and the person.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 8:03PM
Yes. For me there is.
Some poeple say they love someone when they don't and it's easy for them to say they don't love anymore.
For me, I just stop but it takes something to get me there. I don't just stop after years of loving someone. The person has to do something. For example, a guy once told to his colleagues - in front of me - that when he saw a picture of me when I weighed 160 he asked if I had a brother. That did it. He had never asked this question and I look nothing like a guy.
So I just stopped.
Oh and I stopped loving my sister after having been humiliated in public a time too many. She wasn't humiliating herself, she was humiliating me with hurtful words.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 7:22PM
I have never heard it put like that,Just ask for some space,and eaze off from seeing them till it's no more.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 7:20PM
I don't believe that is possible..if you feel you can say you'd be able to unlove them then it is possible you didn't love them at all to begin with. What you may have thought was love wasn't
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 7:25PM
It is as easy to fall out of love with someone as it is to fall IN Love with someone. although this usualy does not happen in the sittuations u would like it to. There is no difference between true love and death..... either one you never wake up from. Love is a fondness of the heart, not matter that happens or happened ur heart can't ignore something it knows is true
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 7:28PM
I think so maybe if the person was in-love with a fantasy version and then was able to see the love object in reality maybe they wouldn't love them anymore.

Samething if the person had the love object on a pedlestal and took them off and the pedestal.

But this would only work as long as the person was able to stay in reality about the love object and not go into denial about who they are.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 8:54PM
It is possible to fall out-of-love with someone. It happens when either you or the other person change, or there is some other life change, and sometimes it is just a gradual thing that happens naturally (especially when the love wasn't very strong in the first place).
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 9:03PM
yes.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 9:14PM
Yes. I loved my ex when we were still together but I don't love him anymore.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 10:06PM
When that person tells your daughter, who was just diagnosed with cancer, that she is a "freakazoid" because of her enlarged lymphnodes, and a "bag of bones", because she had lost weight from it...just to "shut her up"....Yeah....it's very possible. I did it in an instant.
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Posted Jun 1st, 2009 at 10:09PM
I believe there is such a thing as being able to "unlove" someone.

When people we love reciprocate with love in return, it fills our hearts with joy.

When people hurt and betray our faith in them, it is possible to "unlove them"

Remembering that Love is an Emotion and emotions can come and go ...
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