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Just to be clear, he is still very close to me in public, enough that people could recognize that we're more than just friends at least. We have gone on dates and he has told people that we are dating but he is also very quiet and to himself. He will not give an answer to those who ask though. I've been giving him the benefit of the doubt for a long while because he is very honest with me as I am with him. He tells me he's is proud of me and calls me classy. I hope this additional information helps. Thank you
EeveeRoach EeveeRoach 18-21, F 40 Answers Dec 31, 2012 in First Love

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****** alert. Tell him to **** off.

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A good reason to deny to others that she's his friend in public? haha Yeah OK bro. That was rather amusing :-)

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Would love your idea of a "good reason" to do something like that. This should be good. Lets hear it. I guess just about everyone in this thread is a bigot besides you, eh mate? :-)

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PUNCH HIM IN THE ****.

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coming from someone whose sn is "ihate being male" your answer reeks of absurdity and irony.

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yes it is bad. off with his head...you pick which one.

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if you asked the same question of a girl i would have the same answer....

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Very clever comment haha!

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You. Are. Being. Used.

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Does it? Not where I come from.......

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Drop the loser

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That would make anyone feel bad. But right now, it seems like he thinks you guys are fwb and its your job to let him know you have stronger feelings. He might think you think the same and doesnt want to get hurt.

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We haven't done very much to be considered fwb. We just recently started kissing actually. This would be a first relationship for the both of us. I would believe it's more of him being shy than it being fwb.

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Yea it could be that hes shy and doesnt know how to be with you in public. Guys arent big fans of public affection and sometimes have problems admitting they have feelings for someone. Give it a lil time and if hes still the same ask him what his intentions are, then go from there. Good luck!

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We've had that discussion before, even about if we see each other together many years later. And he was the one to bring up the conversation because I was talking about kids. He said, "You say this like there's no chance of us being together later on."
All of this being said with a sad face mind you. He even confesses when he watches **** (excuse the possible awkwardness of that statement). Does that give me more reason to trust him though? =/

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Be careful not to make him feel like your distant, that wont help anything. stay by him and be open. Also, mind your attitude and tone when around him because you said something that made him feel like you were doubting the relationship and youre not trying to send that message the best thing to do is make sure things are good on your end and if hes still hasnt changed listen to your gut and find someone better.
Does the **** part really bother you?

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It doesn't bother me at all actually, it's better than him actually cheating on me I guess... and I'll ask him later on and see how it goes. I don't wanna be in denial but he really is a great guy. I've never liked anyone this much...

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If you feel that way, keep working at it. never know ;) I hope everything worked out!

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terrible.

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there is no excuse for disrespect. male or female. TROLL!

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Very bad!!!!

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No my dear sweetheart, I never judge anyone. I'm sorry if I came across that way. But with the little information I have to go on, I answered the question accordingly, as we are supposed to be doing. (((HUGS))) dear.

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I know it hurts I'd been there but there's a reason and I know why. You should ask yourself

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Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, you should probably find someone who knows what they want

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That is such a comical question. I would never treat my woman that way. NEVER!

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Maybe he's afraid his wife will be mad?

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So.. we just turned 20..where it could be possible, I doubt it's that..

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Yes, this is really bad he is using you. The way he behaves in private is the lie, not the other way around.<br />
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ffs. why do you women do this to yourselves? oh wait... yeah i know...<br />
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I had the opposite situation with a woman for a long time... well she didn't treat me well at all, but she didn't want anyone to know we were together. Eventually it got to me to the point where I told her to stick it...

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he could be hiding something...or..is embarrased about something and im sorry to use that word. not to say your embarrassing or anything its just that usually in situations like this its either one of the two.

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I understand what you meant, thank you for your honestly actually. I'm going to ask him about it. Thanks.

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It's bad unless you're willing to accept the possibility that he's ashamed of you, for whatever reason. Perhaps he has an actual girlfriend ?

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It's very bad. He doesn't love you.

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What is private stays private. He may not wish to acknowledge you publicly, so as to avoid risk of questions and gossip. There are innocent reasons for not showing affection in public. Not every reason is sinister. But that says nothing about what his reason is. You have to ask him.

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He has told me in the past that he doesn't like when people offer their opinions about relationships. Which has been happening with one of our really close friends.

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Then he is smart. The best way to avoid unwanted opinions is don't make it their business in the first place by discussing it.

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you don't need that it will destroy your self esteem

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Yes! I had a female friend that was really nice in private! She said to others just minor friend!

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There may be things about him he has not told you. Is he married, or in a committed relationship? You need to know this. When he tells you the truth tell him goodbye.

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I was not responding to you. Please delete your comment.

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I've spoken to his sister, not about our relationship, but in general, she as well knows we're dating and keeps it a secret from his [racist] mother. I honestly don't think he is using me. I've been taken advantage of many times in the past. He knows this and seems to be remarkably different.

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