Resolved Question

Today a person that I know is going to come. But I know this person does not want to come/does not feel like coming. Because he did not come for over a year, and now there is a 'reason' for it. Really.. he only comes for that. He needs something,.. and it is a lot. A lot of work for me. All the wile pretending it is based on the same friendship we used to have. But he is no where near me in other periods. Which makes me feel very sad.

Now I do not feel like letting him come. I feel like telling him to let me do the work alone. I feel like not letting him come and spare me the humiliation of the pretending that he enjoys it.
Because it really does feel humiliating, especially because I care about this person.. we where good friends until he got his girlfriend. And it is always like that. And not only he does forget his female friends, also the male ones. So it is not that.

You shouldn't withhold your true feelings and go along with anything that makes you feel this way. I think you should tell this person how you feel in an honest and open way. If he's a fool he'll react negatively and then you'll know for sure that you're better off not having him around...