He sounds like a casual acquaintance, not really a friend. The cuddling may be inappropriate seeing as he isn't interested in having anything more to do with you; almost condescending. It sounds like you may have hopes for a deeper relationship and he has hopes for less. Are you romantically interested in him? He may like you as a friend, but I don't think he's interested in taking it further. If I were you, I'd ask him to please not touch me.
Then, you must have a different definition for cuddling than I do.
Girl please oh no he didn't!!! You tell that to get to stepping! Tell him come back when you grow up. Little boy!!!! He isn't worth your. Time he'd only hurt you!!
Except this isn't a girl, it is a man, and he says he is NOT gay.
You two may not click,don't worry to much,go and see The Hobbit yourself.