Is this stepping over the line, or am I over-thinking it?
You might think this is a stupid question, but your advice would really help me!
If we're working late, I'll give out chocolate frogs to my colleagues. We're all in a position of equal 'power' - no one is more senior than anyone else in terms of their position or job title, just in experience. I am the newest member of staff and have been there for around 8 months.
Anyway, there's a colleague of mine who I have a bit of a "crush" on. He's married, so I try not to flirt with him or anything like that, but we are usually on friendly terms.
Anyway, it's his birthday soon - would it be 'weird' if I gave him a bigger chocolate frog than usual? You can't get them in the usual packets, so he'd probably be able to tell that I'd gone to some extra effort to get it (not that it's that hard to get!) He hasn't told me that it's his birthday - another colleague mentioned it. I'm just doing it to be nice.
Would it be weird? Do you think he'd read too much into it? Or am I over-thinking