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Is this the right thing to do? Pls help!!?

Iâ��m getting a little it too obsessed. I know I should just move on and get over him. Plus, Iâ��m starting to have this feeling that all that happened didnâ��t really mean anything. So guess, yeah I should just forget.

I like this guy whom I've seen stare at me a lot. We've locked eyes a lot but from afar only. However, whenever we pass by each other, he looks somewhere else or when I look at him, he looks down. We don't really talk. Anyway, one time I finally had my chance. I was the last in line to buy food until he came along. So I looked at him, but pretended to be surprised, then stared into his eyes for 2 seconds, then I pretended to be discerning who he was for about 3 seconds (this time I wasn't staring into his eyes). At that time, I think my expression was like I was thinking of who he was, eyes a little bit squinted (as if in "deep" thought), then I looked into his eyes again and said a long "hi". But a second after I started to say hi (I didn't even finish saying "hiiiiiiiiiiii"), his eyes looked away (with a disgusted expression I think) and he said a long "hellloooooo" (as if he was forced to do it or as if he was used to girls sayng hi to him) what's his problem? Does he hate me or something? He was nice to me before-- like he gave me his seat in the jeep. what's his problem now?

Over that. Over him. In time I will be.

Anyway, we have anew classmate who happens to be really close with this guy. I think they were classmates in high school or something. But theyâ��re really close. And I heard him telling our facilitator what a bad boy my crush is. He was one of the worst. I didnâ��t exactly hear what it was he did, but I know that it wasnâ��t good. The new guy wanted to be in the same group as my crush is in this class field thing so badly. He even wanted to meet up with him after the group stuff. A few minutes later we had to ride a jeep to wherever we were going. And my crush kept on saying that he wanted to stay in front. O went in and sat at the back of the front area of the jeep. I was so close that I could here what my crush was talking about when he went there. Anyway, what happened was, there was an extra seat right beside me. So the facilitator asked my crush if he wanted to sit there, but then he said heâ��d rather stay in front. And I saw his face at that time. It was either sad or pissed. So thatâ��s when I realized, â��yeah. He really doesnâ��t like me.â��

Then the new guy sat on the seat next to mine and tapped my crush on the shoulder and said â��Pare (â��guyâ�� in another language) ONE STEP CLOSER!â�� I donâ��t really know what that implied, but Iâ��m sure his friend was not interested in me. Weâ��ve never met before and I couldnâ��t feel anything between us. This guy kept on tapping my crush on the shoulder and when we told the driver to drop us of somewhere else and not where my crush was going, he said something like bye to my crush--- and we didnâ��t even reach the place!

So now I learned 3 things from this.

1. Heâ��s too much of a bad boy for me. Maybe he was just playing with me when he gave me those long gazes, and with how he reacted. Maybe he didnâ��t really like me after allâ��thatâ��s why heâ��d always snob me. That could also be the reason why he didnâ��t want to sit next to me.
2. His friend could be gay. HAHAHAHAH
3. I got absolutely nothing from this.

Itâ��s too bad though. This guy was someone whom I felt something special for the moment I laid eyes on him. I felt like I was looking at his soul whenever we locked eyes. Even if it still happens in the future, Iâ��ll forget about them and not reminisce on how every moment felt. People like him are hard to forget. Itâ��s just too bad he looks at me with those looks of longing and played with my heart by doing that. But Iâ��ll get over this. Iâ��m strong. Yeah. I know I am. I can do this.

So I guess this is the end of the story. Not everyone gets happy endings. Hahahahahahah.

Posted 11 months ago

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It sounds like you have already made your decision or that your crush has anyway. Life is too short to be with a man that doesn't want you so keep living your life and doing what you want to do. When it is the right time a man will come along and you will know it is right. For now, appreciate the giddy feelings you had for your crush in the beginning and smile because those are some great feelings.

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unicorn59	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM I think you decided it yourself when you said that you have learned that he is too much of a bad boy for you....could that be your inner voice? He kind of acted interested, then shunned you....could be playing games with you....either way...I am sure you can do better than this guy....Good luck. Rated: +1Vote for this!
GreenLayCrashBeau ty	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Hey chicka, Don't feel bad about any of this. I have not had relationship luck either and I actually learned the meaning of, "ALL BOYS ARE JERKS." I mean, I knew the meaning and I knew everyone said it, but I actually started living it about a year ago and it's still working on me. Now, don't be alarmed! Some boys are not jerks, but those are harder to find and if you find one you have to make sure they just aren't playing you. Another saying, "ALL GUYS ONLY WANT ONE THING." I came accross this as well. You wouldn't believe the things guys do and say to try to get you into bed, which brings me to say, "Jerks." LOL. Look, as you said, you are a strong girl, and trust me, you don't need a guy to make you stronger. Your right guy will come to you someday, just give it time and be patient. I know I'm not to good at the patient thing, but I'm learning to cope and get along. You'll learn in teen years, that it's easier for best friends to hook up and ruin a friendship then it is for new people to meet and go out. Sometimes, anyways, sometimes it's not like that, but I know quite a few of my friends and I are going through all of this too.. Just keep in mind that you are strong, beautiful, and perfect and any guy who passes that up is just retarted! Good luck and keep us posted. Much love, Layli Rated: +1Vote for this!
wiseowl	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Yes, drop your interest. Whatever he has done..one thing is CLEAR..he's weird.You need a friendly guy who can at least function, in public! Rated: +1Vote for this!
FeatherInTheWind	Posted Feb 5th, 2009 at 5:58PM Wow, haven't I had this happen to me way too much! Just recently I could swear I was right on the edge of a relationship with this guy I know; looks, smiles, sitting watching tv with our legs touching, hands brushing, walks on the beach...and then it just ended...suddenly he hasn't really talked to me in almost a month. And he's not even a jerk; I know him and his family pretty well, and he's the nicest guy I've ever met. He's done this before; I don't think he even realizes he's giving me false signals. What makes guys do the things they do? Anyway, sorry for babbling on about myself. I definitely sympathize, SydneyCarton. I don't know if you should move on. It depends on the situation. I'm planning to give my crush a little more time to get his act together b4 I ditch him. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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