Resolved Question

I am a single 34 year old female, with no children. I was in a 4 year abusive relationship when I first got out of college. After that finally ended, I devoted myself to working on my career.

I didn't really date or get seriously involved until last year, when I met a man who was seperated and "getting divorced" and had 3 kids. He and I moved in together 2 months after we met - I thought to help us both financially... He never did get the divorce, until after we broke up... and I ended up paying all the bills, until I moved his things out, and wrote a check for his first month's rent at his own apartment. I was more tore-up about his 3 kids, then I was about him.

Now, I know that I will NOT jump into another situation so soon... but I also don't have much time left to wade in the waters of the dating pool, if I want to have my own child. But I am also traditional, in the fact that I want to be married, before having a child.

So, what's a 34-year old single girl to do?

stay single until you are comfortable enough to be in a relationship that you deem satisfying. if you don't have childrren it is not the end of the world.