i think it is
I believe so. Why be dependent on the other for your happiness? Then they could easily hold you hostage by your dependency if they truly wish to.
Yep, I would say so. Although slowly but surely someone has helped me like myself. :) so in a way no but you need to be open to looking at yourself differently :)
normally you both end up unhappy
Yes it is true. You can not place that kind of a burden on someone else. How is someone supposed to carry that kind of burden?