Well there should be boundaries but what happens within it is yalls decision. Dont compromise more than you think you should.
I would get one of those big round lolly pops. Whenever he's in the mood, just sit on the side of the bed and lick on it. Don't let him touch you though! Just sit there and let him watch you suck on that lolly pop...for hours and hours and hours.
Bed is the only place where there should be no limits in anything. That's where you open up and do your thing.......it will keep your relationship strong and going...
On Psychology Today I learned that ********* work best for short term relationships but not really for married couples. Just watch **** together and buy naughty costumes.
Seems like if you're comfortable go with it.
You both need to be comfortable with whatever you're doing. You gotta be open enough to be like nope, never mind, don't like that, if it isn't going how you want or your not enjoying yourself.