It is a little too much when a male friend keeps saying u deserve things?
Have a male friend and if i go shopping, he says i deserve to go shopping, if i have a day off or have a lazy day off, he says i deserve it. It is just me or he coming off as too keen? He was interested in me but i'm not. I have spoken to him about it and things r gud now but he keeps dropping in comments like 'u totally deserve a day off' Its too much for me!
4 Answers to "It is a little too much when a male friend keeps saying u deserve things?"
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He is buttering you, thinking that it will improve his image in your mind. If you really aren't interested in him as more than a friend, then you should say it straight to him.
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i have told him i wasn't interested. He was fine about it. He does go through phases of telling me i deserve things. I work shifts, if i have a day off that happens to be during the week, he tells me i deserve it, but why? its part of my weekend!
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It really sounds like the message that you're not interested has not gotten through to his mind... he still believes he's in with a chance, if he plays his cards right.
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Quit making it a thing, friends tell friends crap like that all time.
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You're wondering if you deserve to be told you deserve stuff?
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no its not that, but he says it all the time, like everytime we see each other. Its over kill
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by LittleMissGreenEyes Feb 18th, 2013 at 12:49PM
I know a guy like that! he is interested in me, but im not in him. and I feel bad, but i get so mad at him sometimes bc he always talks to me like that. i dont need someone telling me what i deserve! i know what i deserve, and he needs to know when to stop before i think i deserve to stop talking to him lol. there is a such thing is being TOO nice.
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