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It may hurt your feelings but the truth is always the best isnt it

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    LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by LizardKing May 16th, 2012 at 11:49PM

    Absolutely

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  1. dolly99 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by dolly99 May 16th, 2012 at 11:50PM

    i agree how are you doing

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  2. LizardKing - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by LizardKing May 16th, 2012 at 11:52PM

    Gud! You?

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15 Answers to "It may hurt your feelings but the truth is always the best isnt it"

  1. LadyofDreams - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by LadyofDreams May 17th, 2012 at 12:37AM

    I think that truth should always be tempered with tact and compassion. There's a way to tell someone the truth without saying it in a hurtful fashion. It also depends upon what the truth is, and whether or not it *needs* to be said. If saying it only causes hurt, and there's no benefit to the person, then ask yourself "why?" before you tell them. If they need to know, and it is ultimately of benefit to them, if you must tell them, try to be as kind as possible, and be there for them afterwards, if you can.

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  2. kateegirl - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by kateegirl May 17th, 2012 at 12:32AM

    My mother always told me, that as long as you say what you need to say politely, no harm done. With each experience that you have to decide if you are going to tell the truth, the whole truth, or a little, it varies for the situation. Sometimes people may not want to hear the truth, but if they need to hear it, it is worth telling.

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  3. platicadora - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by platicadora May 17th, 2012 at 12:08AM

    I don't believe the truth should always be told if it accomplishes nothing and it will just hurt the person. For example: let's say that a guy decrares his love for me and I'm thinking "I'm not physically attracted to you......no way I could ever kiss you.....you really bore me.........." you get the point.........why tell him the truth? I'll lie and say "you're so sweet, but I only see you as a friend".......this way he knows I'm not interested, but he won't feel so bad. Of course, I don't know the context of your question.

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  4. aquarius3 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by aquarius3 May 16th, 2012 at 11:57PM

    It's always wisest to tell the truth. Sometimes it's better not to say anything. There's no need to lie.

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  5. inspiration1 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by inspiration1 May 16th, 2012 at 11:56PM

    Yes. Truth is always the best.
    But must it be told anywhere and everywhere, to anyone on any occasion?

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  6. platicadora - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by platicadora May 17th, 2012 at 12:09AM

    I so agree with you!

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  7. mulder - 26-30 years old

    Posted by mulder May 16th, 2012 at 11:54PM

    Is the most painful truth better then a pleasent lie? That is a tough one it just depends on which side your on, the truth can set you free but can also condem you

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  8. WhiteWidowess - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by WhiteWidowess May 16th, 2012 at 11:54PM

    No No NO... sometimes..but why tell the truth just to make yourself feel better when it would only hurt someone if they knew. Just for your own conscience? That is when no.

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  9. ThomasAquinus - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by ThomasAquinus May 16th, 2012 at 11:53PM

    It takes great naivete to believe that the truth is always the appropriate option. The truth is the ideal, but reality often requires well placed lies.

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  10. platicadora - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by platicadora May 17th, 2012 at 12:10AM

    you guys are so wise

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  11. pegasuss - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by pegasuss May 16th, 2012 at 11:53PM

    Absolutely. That way you never have any doubts about repeating what you said as liars do. They get so tangled up they give themselves away. They look up with theit eyes when you ask them something, searching for an answer you see. Easy to spot.

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  12. badbinary - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by badbinary May 16th, 2012 at 11:52PM

    the truth can be very harsh and knowing when to bite ones tongue can be definitely helpful

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  13. loster - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by loster May 16th, 2012 at 11:50PM

    It depends on what you think is true.

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  14. KnobbyKnees - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by KnobbyKnees May 16th, 2012 at 11:50PM

    yes but it depends on who going to be hurt by it. Sometime saying nothing is better. You are not lieing just not saying anything at all.

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  15. hellnbackvouchernhand - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by hellnbackvouchernhand May 16th, 2012 at 11:50PM

    yeah

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  16. Durion23 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Durion23 May 16th, 2012 at 11:50PM

    Sure, I'll find it out eventually anyway.

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