If you see this as a serious problem, I would recommend counseling. They can help teach you social skills and also how to deal with anxiety. You are young and will find the right woman for you at the right time. Remember that we all have imperfections and if we know about them, then we can work on them. I think therapy is good for everyone and everyone should go on and off during their lifetime. I have learned so many valuable lessons and skills through counseling, which has helped me in my personal life, as well as my social, and business life. You'll do good because you recognize a problem and therefore will work on it. You just need the right vehicle to get there. Also, when you seek counseling, the older they are, the more wise they are, from my experience.
This is a more common problem than you think. There is no Magic Cure. You just have to Push yourself,and keep pushing yourself, you will get Better at it,with practice and you will become more Comfortable. This is A Truth. :)
how bout if they talk to you first?
i just did lol
I was the one who came up to my boyfriend
Bless. Stop trying to impress and do the most important thing and 'listen'. It will all come naturally then..
Yeah - its the higgs boson. See - you can chat to women lol!
You need to take active measures to deal with that. Otherwise, you may find yourself 62-years old and never-married, like me.
It worked for my husband and it may work for you. He was 17 at the time. He never "hit" on me or tried to impress me instead. He asked me about something I happened to be interested in. Like I had this thing about cars, he noticed I had it and him being a car guy. Just walked up and started talking about imports with me like I was a guy. What I mean is if you have a problem talking to women it's because you probably see them as a potential something instead try just talking to them like they're one of you're guy friends. It may break the ice enough to then progress on to whatever your intentions are.
Go on a dating site. You seem to have no problem talking to people over the internet. Hopefully after getting to know someone a little better on the internet you won't be so timid when you actually meet her