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It's sad when you realize you aren't as important to someone as you thought were. Isn't it?

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  1. ravenwritingdesk - 16-17 years old

    Posted by ravenwritingdesk Mar 25th, 2013 at 8:22AM

    Yes, but I've taken the situation as a test from God. To test me on whether she was THAT important for me. Is to test how much i love her. Therefore I stood up strong and fought against the situation, I stood up strong and tried, to make myself important for her. Till today, I've been trying in every way I could. Despite the fact the I've never succeeded in any way, I've been thankful to God that he gave me the chance to prove how important she was to me, therefore I had the strength to stand here for her for months. Watching her having her own happiness now, however, made me realize how pathetic and sad I was. However I did not regret anything.

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  2. locksoflove - 22-25 years old

    Posted by locksoflove Jan 7th, 2013 at 10:41AM

    Im really hurt right now I just found out my boyfriend kissed someone else while we were talking and if I would have done that to him at that time he wouldn't even look at me it's so painful and unimaginable to think about how much I care about him and how I would never hurt him and he did that to me I feel like I lost a best friend that I apparently never had the first place I feel really kind of insane about the whole situation and I was told to drop it and I did the moving on with that is really more disturbing to me because it's really hard to just look at him like I used to!

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  3. OneClownShortOfGotham - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by OneClownShortOfGotham Jun 7th, 2012 at 5:14AM

    It's one of the worst feelings.
    I knew my best friend since we were 2 years old, we did everything together.

    One day she stopped talking to me, and to this day I don't know why. And I realised that if I was as important to her, as she was to me, she would have told me.

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  4. MrElwood - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by MrElwood Jun 7th, 2012 at 5:13AM

    yes..

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  5. Kimberly4 - 46-50 years old

    Posted by Kimberly4 Jun 7th, 2012 at 5:10AM

    I think that most of the time people are only capable of loving someone else the best they know how! There are some that lead people on intentionally for gain of some sort as well. It all hurts but what are we learning from these experiences? That we have to always...love...self...first. Then the sting isn't as bad because you have enough self-esteem to learn from it and move on to the next part of your journey with grace and dignity. There are plenty of people in this world that will love you for you! When you are ready by "loving yourself" first, they will show up.

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  6. CountSpatula - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by CountSpatula Jun 7th, 2012 at 4:42AM

    Yep. Woe are we.

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  7. The13thLostSoul - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by The13thLostSoul Jun 7th, 2012 at 4:39AM

    that's what i realized yesterday, and it was extremely painful, specially if it's someone you love so much ...

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