It's so easy getting Female friends online in chat, Why is it really difficult in Real life?
It's funny. i have added like 1000 contacts in my online chat program. of course not everyone responded but like 100 did become kind of my friends . Most of them are women. Really easy to make friends online with women.
Yet, in real life I have nOTHING. i've never had a single female friend(well i 've had about 1 in all my life and it was short period).
I think it's cause in real life you're expected to have great Appearance and act great but in online it allstarts with text and you can be yourself. It especially hard in real life because i have disability and it's pretty obvious and Women my age(30s) are not interested in a disabled guy who speaks like a baby.
That's my thought. Man, it's easy online. Yet it's sad cause online friends are from overseas or long distance and i can never meet them It's like a waste of time. Eventually they'll forget me like they did when i had online friends from 1995 those disappeared. then new ones come. etc
i'm male in my 30s
6 Answers to "It's so easy getting Female friends online in chat, Why is it really difficult in Real life?"
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Online you don't have to see the person, and if you do you can easily end the chat, but in real life, you have to sit there awkwardly til it's over
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I think the problem is so many people men and women alike are selfish. They may think being in a relationship with someone with a disability as being more work..... or they are intimidated of the unknown. But they are so many that are wonderful out there... the right person is bond to show up. Don't give up. Be confident in who you are. Confidence is everything when I meet someone new. I want them to be proud of who they are.
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I have wondered this myself many times
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I wouldent say its a waste of time tho, the time we have are valuable and precious anyway. I dont talk as often now with some freinds online I used to chat much with, but I still remember them being there for me as a freind. I wont forget that. And some other guys I had much fun with, joked around so much it was hillarious, lol. The small things in life you end up appreciating. I never had any real life freinds really, not since I was a kid and all ended up betraying me. And indeed, so easy to make female freinds online. They jugde me soooo quick in real life I think, lol.
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I'll go with maybe it's your approach...
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Nightfell Dec 16th, 2012 at 8:26PM
Easier to get to know someone when you actually don't really know them.
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Reply by Kayakker Dec 16th, 2012 at 8:27PM
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Reply by Nightfell Dec 16th, 2012 at 8:28PM
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