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xxxxevahxxxx xxxxevahxxxx 22-25, F 11 Answers Jun 23 in Health

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His way of dealing with it perhaps

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It's a young male's way to tell you anything you want to hear to get what he wants. It doesn't mean he's sincere, he just wants what he wants that moment. Don't be surprised.

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I just don't want to be here alone and frightened so far from home.

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You need to clearly explain to him what's going on with you when he returns. He may not understand the real grief you're feeling anticipating the loss. Later after the procedure it will not only be emotional it will also be a physical reaction to the loss of the baby so be prepared for that. See your Doctor tomorrow and ask for some help with the aftermath of an abortion so you're prepared and have some strategies in place for after it's done.

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Thank you staleywise for being helpful and kind. I was beginning to regret posting my question with some of the nasty comments iv received from some people, they really know how to sink the boot in when your down.

Thank you though. 😍

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You're welcome. I hope it all works out for you. :)

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I would want to go to the gym and release my anger too.

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It was his decision mostly, I wanted to explore the options we had but he insisted we weren't ready.

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Sounds like is an introvert

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He is*

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I don't know, maybe he's feeling overwhelmed and needs to blow off some steam. Don't fret though. Carry on. If that's what you feel is right for you, then go with it.

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he could be either 2 of these option, he thinks your fine with it since you used abortion and is oblivious and needs you telling him how you feel so he understands or he is just an arsehole

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you probably don't want to keep that boyfriend

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boyfriend's a ****. move on.

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Now you know you're just a **** to him.

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Yeah, how dare he go to the gym when his girlfriend is going to kill his child, what a cad!

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It was his decision aswell.

We are in a foreign country on a temporary visa. Both good careers , not married yet or even own our own home. We're still settling ourselves and that's why the decision was made. 😔

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I can't talk about this and be civil...

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he needs to work it out, let off steam , his way....let him

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Coz ur kids, that's why.

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You're not that much older than her.

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We're not kids. We're in a long standing relationship of over 5years, and in our 20's and 30's. this was an accident. Obviously the barrier method failed somehow.

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but I wouldn't have unprotected sex without being ready for the consequences

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We never had unprotected sex?
Why are you being nasty?

I said above "the barrier method failed" ie. condom

We didn't realise until 3 weeks afterwards. We've been together 5yrs and there was an accident. It happens

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Sorry, just read your first comment. His reaction of leaving for the gym sounds like something a teenager would do, not a man in a mature relationship, I just assumed from there it was another case of 20yos getting knocked up without any plan for the future - which happens all the time. But it looks like I'm wrong here - about the contraceptive, didn't mean to be nasty, just have little respect for the aforementioned 20yos.

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No worries, mix ups can happen !

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