I add people I choose. I don't even check who has added me.
Lol one reason I take frequent breaks from EP. I get to many messages shortly after logging on.
I have none, and I talk with all, I mean just the ones who are good enough, if ya happy with 5, so be it, quality matters not quantity :)
Why not just remove some of them? I had a feeling that some people with lots of friends can hardly talk with most of them.. probably got added sometime and then stopped talking. But I still don't add people with over several hundred friends cause it seems pointless, you become one in a huge crowd.