Talking is about the best advise. Stresses shouldn't be pulling you apart if you are working together on them. But I don't mean just on yours. In this post, you explain your stresses and talk about him just being gripey. That sounds suspiciously like his way of venting to relieve stress but you can't handle it. If that is his method and you stop him, you are increasing his stress and then expecting him to help you reduce yours.<br />
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Both of you will have to take into account not only what stresses you are under but how each of you deals with stress. Expecting him to ignore his stress and just help you deal with yours is unrealistic. Maybe see a counselor to help with understanding each other and dealing with these high levels of stress would be a good idea. I did and it helped me.

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I think your absolutly right. I know talking-gripey helps him, and I dont mind most of the time. I guess it just kept going and going. Thats why I still want him to talk but also find another good friend he can talk to also&gt; I have a feeling thats parly why he went to game with his brother, to relax and maby talk to.

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I dont believe in what people call "marital problems" or "relationship problems".<br />
In my view, a couple is NEVER a problem, its actually the problems of one, that are projected "in" the couple.<br />
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I keep saying: The problem is not the thing, the problem is the idea we make ourselves about the thing. <br />
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But do you really want to ask yourself so deeply ? All my best to you, may whatever your god is bless you.

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dont expect or want anything from him just live your life, and invite him to live his nexto yours. when you rely on someone the pressure will make them let you down.<br />
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if you just rock what you do, and you dont need him. he will get involved by choice. if he doesnt. **** him off hes a retard. youll do better next time. lesson learnt. <br />
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dont feel like his affection is your world or you will end up crying and dribbling into the carpet.

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It sounds like you are the stressed one, is he even aware there is a problem? if he is and he went to the football dump him.

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Thats the problem. Im out of phone minuets so my son called him said get on facebook. so me and bf were talking on fb about the problem and he said im coming over to talk, then he comes over and says his brother is taking him to a game and is it all right if we talk in the morning. His brother lives out of town about 10 miles and they dont always get together so I let him go , even though i was pissed.

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