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Sh726 Sh726 51-55, F 12 Answers Jan 20 in Dating & Relationships

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Try to get well so that you can find a better option than giving up on life. I will pray for you.

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Thank you. I need prays but I need to know how to get through it when I can't leave the house due to pain

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Thank you for sharing. We need to pray for you too because it is a very, very difficult situation. I pray that the man will repent, that God will bring major breakthrough and sustain and comfort you always. I also hope you have some medicine for the pain.

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I've been on medication for to long. My husband try's to use it against me saying I say all this and think it because I'm on medication but little does he know that I've got GPS that say were he is. That all the time he says he is somewhere he really isn't there. That when he hangs up with me he goes back in the truck stop then parks the truck then about half our later he goes back to the truck stop. He never buys anything. He don't know I've recorded him in OUR BEDROOM talking to someone and both his work and other cell phone is out here in the front room. How he says he wants and misses and can't wait to be with her. I've even when as far to recur him leaving at 3 in the morning and gets back about 3-4 hours later when I'm sleeping. Who does this. I've never had to do this before. Unfortunately I've learn everyday how to see what he is doing. I can't nor do I want to live like this anymore. If I was ill I would not be here even talking about it. He knows I can't leave this house. How do you do this to someone you love for 28 years.

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I wish we could help you find a solution. It is a terrible situation. Is there any sort of social service that would help, or at least give you some ideas on anything else you might possibly be able to do?

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I've been going through this illness for now 2 years. Every dr I go to says I DONT KNOW. I'm getting insurance next month so hopefully I will get more help. They don't like to do much for you without insurance

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We have waited for this day to come. For me to be heathy and have a life again. I'm guessing I wasn't worth the wait.

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You know one of the biggest problems I'm having is proving it. I want to prove it to my family. I hear him in the bedroom and I open the door he is so sneaky ( that scares me that he can be this sneaky) that he acts like he is sleeping. I stand by the door and I can hear the texting sound. I have tried to put my iphone in there but we have a floor fan that is loud and drowns him out under the blanket. So I get from people... Are you sure he is doing this. Yes I'm very sure cause he makes the sex noise when he is finish getting of. I should know that sound after 28 years. I guess getting him self off with someone on the other end talking to him is better than me. And I'm right in the next room watching tv. He don't even ask me to help him out. So I can figure out how to prove it. And I really really really want to prove it. To me and everyone else.

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Get out of the relationship

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Hi<br />
Have read your story and the responses<br />
If your in pain Dr have machines that can register pain. They have specialists.<br />
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You say you have four children but at school and far away cant at least one of you or all of you get together and try and rent or buy a home together.<br />
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I cannot understand if children grown how one cannot make the effort to help you.<br />
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You cannot chase somebody around and sneak on them and inspect their mobile phones all the time<br />
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There are people and places that will help you move if what your saying is right. And if also this sick will put you somewhere where can be looked after they will not leave you on the street.<br />
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But I am sorry your coming through to me as having more of a problem than you think.<br />
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It looks like it would be better if you thought of separation at least for a while and ask your husbands support in getting even a room of your own,.<br />
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If your this ill who is there to shop for you or do the housework or even cook. Someone has too <br />
Who runs you to your doctors if cannot sit in a car you are not safe to drive yourself<br />
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You say you cannot get in a car it hurts to move but can chase around watching your husband.<br />
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I do not mean to imply for one min that he is not cheating but if he is he has let you down when need him most and not worth having in the first place.<br />
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How is killing yourself or saying you wish too solve the problem unless for him so your death would be doing him a favour.<br />
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So my friend it is up to you not God not prayer just you.<br />
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You owe it to yourself to either sink or swim<br />
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Bio<br />
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Get up use you phone for something useful and summon help

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Stop talking and start walking ....

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I know. I was there. I finally left mine. I couldn't take it. I don't regret it. I pulled the rug out from under him. He thought I'd put up with it. No more.

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Love to answer when you answer this.. why no gender and why the male profile avatar ?

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Cheating and the lies......m'dear I have had this happen to me too.<br />
But you will survive, even when you think you can't.<br />
It's so hurtful, seriously ....<br />
Be good to you as you go through this .

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Please tell me how to get through it.

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change the lock.you stay<br />
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he goes

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Divorce him

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Get out then.

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I should. I want to end it right now. No one will miss me

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Do it. Be happy. The truth is, they'll never miss you until you're gone.

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Your right.

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Thanks bye

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Both

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Kids that are far away and go to school and are broke

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He is winning. 28 years and now I'm sick and he has a girlfriend

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Everyone just says get your self well first then we can try to get me home. See I have nerve problems that are going through my whole body. I can't even wear shoes cause my feet have pins going in them and when I'm touched it hurts or if I have to get in the car I've got to sit on a pillow and put one around my side by my rib cause every bump in the road hurts

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Had 

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Biopsy and couldn't find anything

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