No tolerance. Cheat once, they're done.
You ought to have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to cheating, but apparently you don't since you're asking this question. In that case, you'll forgive him "just this once". Then it'll happen again, but of course, he's very sorry. Maybe he was drunk and this girl was pursuing him. The next time it'll be "your fault". You weren't attentive enough and so on, so forth. Let's cut to the chase. He has no respect for you or your relationship. Cut your losses before things get worse..
Are you seriously thinking of staying with a CHEATER? Shame on you!! Dump his sorry a$$ and get with someone who knows better!
Please, listen to what these people are saying. NO ONE DESERVES a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. This is a sign that there is someone MUCH better for you. He doesn't deserve someone faithful if he can't be faithful..
Leave him honey. Usually they cheat again. Its hard and it hurts. It wont be easy. But you could save yourself many years of pain.
Difficult one this I mean once they cheat there is always a possible chance he could and would do it again! My husband did it with me and I knew who it was before he told me so its not nice. But your decision end of day, just be careful you could end up very hurt over this!!!!!
that's not a long time to live together for him to get tired and cheat. i wouldn't marry him, don't get married while things arent right. i would leave.
wave the cheating runt bye bye, am being polite with you, plenty more fish in the sea
CHEATED as in how? on bed? or just DATING?
Make a decision, accept it and move on and continue with your life
I've been there and I'm still there. My now husband did the same thing before we were married. I let it go, and he did it again. My story is "facebook!" if you want to know about it. Anyway, if I had followed my instincts then, I wouldn't have been in this situation now. He will most likely do it again, I almost fully expect my husband to do it again and again until he gets physical with someone. As soon as I get the timing right, I'm out of this marriage.
I know it's hard, but I think you should just let him go. If you cut your losses and move on, you'll be a lot happier. I'm tired of feeling like I'm in limbo all the time. I could've met someone better by now. Could've done all the things I wanted to do. He shouldn't have to realize he loves he should know. If you're the one he really wants everyone else seems like dust compared to you. You deserve better. I've wasted a lot of time and heartache on someone I should've left 10yrs ago. Don't do the same, time is precious. Live your life like you mean it.
End it and find a nice sexy woman!!
If you have to ask...basically staying is rewarding the behaviour.
if he didnt slip it in, then ho harm no foul
Do you still love him? Do you still trust him? Because there is no point in staying with him if there is no love or trust.
You can't be in a relationship without trust. Without trust, everything will be questioned. Like if he's really going to the grocery store or if he's going to cheat again. Or if he's really going on a business trip or if he's meeting up with his other girlfriend. As much as I think you should break up with him, I can understand you wanting to stay with him. I know a lot of people who would rather die then part with their lovers, even if they cheated, but I personally don't think it's good to stay with him. You can definitely do better then a cheater. ^_^
was it multi x's or just a 1 night stand ?
You could try losing some wight and perhaps stop dressng like a flood victim. That might help.
You already know.
cheat in front of him, and then say something snappy lol....like....
how do you like them apples.............lol ha ha sorry
You must confront the issue and then make an informed decision. Only you can decide whether you can fully trust him and be able to repair the broken commitment.