It depends on you and your lover ;)<br />
Time & Distance could mean nothing if the connections between you and your lover are strong enough<br />
and if you could conquer them ,,<br />
It will be definitely longlasting as you want<br />
But again ,, "love" is too fragile ,, If you dont take care it good ,, It breaks and your heart will be broken & hurted :(
From my experience (Just got out of a long distance relationship) It works in the short term but its not something that can be kept at permanent circumstances, especially if you guys are exclusive.<br />
But if your both determined, it could work.<br />
Me and my ex just couldnt hande it.
I belive they can work. My school friend met her husban online while she was in Canada and him in the states, and after dating for about a year she moved there and married him. <br />
I do think it's probably more difficult than other relationships though.
They work well for migratory birds.
It depends on the relationship and the people in it...<br />
My boyfriend & I have been together for 14 years. <br />
For a little over eight years we were many hundreds of miles apart. <br />
And the time apart was not easy! <br />
He was in a situation where we could not always talk to each other. Sometimes there'd even be months where we were only able to write. <br />
And your mind can become your worst enemy, imaginig all types of scenarios. <br />
You want to know what he's doing, who he's with, etc & unless you know others where he is at, you pretty much have to take his word for it. <br />
If there's trust issues when you're together - actually, if there's any issues when you're together - distance can magnify them greatly. <br />
We have always maintained a strong desire to be together. We relied upon each other to stay positive & there was near-constant reassurances of love needed by both of us. <br />
It can get very lonely, obviously, and it's important to be open about your needs. <br />
Communication is crucial. So many questions, hard questions, need to be asked and answered. <br />
Especially regarding seeing other people or not. <br />
So much depends on individual circumstances & the distance involved. Always trying to fit so many memories into the occasional visit... <br />
Anyway, sorry. i tend to go on & on sometimes.<br />
The simple answer? <br />
Yes, long distance relationships can work out. <br />
We've been living together again since he returned a little over a year ago. :~)
It rarely does.
I've been in two of them -- one more effective than the other, but neither of them ideal.
they don't work for the most part but stranger things have happened<br />
just be ready for it if it doesn't work out so your heart is ready for the break up.
for the most part i don't think so. it seems like a complete waste of time.
If you both want that yeap!