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Ive bin with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years now, weve broken up 2wice and no i feel i dont love him help?

He tells me he loves me and wants noone else now and hes even thinking of us moving in together when hes finished college next year, i havent any idea how i feel for him anymore or even if i want to be with him at all. If anyone out there can help it would be greatly appreciated.

The thing is that we broke up and didnt talk for over a month, by the end of it I missed him so much and he said he missed me. At this point he was in a realtionship and broke up with her the night after we met up for a drink.I know i love him a lot and he loves me im just so confused i dont know what to do.
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if you have any doubts DON'T co-habitate....... and sorry t say, but sounds like your over him - move on
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 5:48PM
just because you miss someone, doesn't mean you love them

I miss my favourite TV programme when it is in recess, but I'm not in love

LOVE is when you want to spend the rest of your life with this person, no thoughts of others, you want to have his babies and would do anything for him

I don't think you feel this way about this guy !

My wife waited 4 years four me...I had to finish college in another country. We saw each other only twice during this time, she waited and remained faithful.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:33PM
I fyou feel as you dun love him you dun need to be with him...your heart is telling you to move on....
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:37PM
You are too young to move in!

Tell him you have a life to live and want to see the world

by YOURSELF!!
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:42PM
If your questioning your feelings I always say its time to move on hun, plenty more fish in the sea when your ready. Good luck.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 4:44PM
Get distance from it all. moving in is a bad idea..you may just move out again.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 8:43PM
Don't rush into anything. Take your time. Love is a strong word to use. The off and on during your past three years is a sign of commitment? You need to really ask yourself, do you want to be commited to him, has he been their for you in your darkest hour or does he leaves/breakup? You to need to talk to find out if it is worth another 3 years off and on. Believe me, I was in the same situation but 20x's worst and I just ended a 9yr relationship where the first 3 of our lives were off and on. After that 6yrs of heart ache and broken promises. I am not trying to change your mind but to think before you act? Do you have 6 more years?
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