I've cheated on my boyfriend... Should i tell him?
26 Answers to "I've cheated on my boyfriend... Should i tell him?"
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If you can't be honest with him, why are you with him?
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Because i love him and it was a mistake, i dont want to break his heart if i tell him..Like (1)
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YES. would you want to know if he cheated on you?
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Honesty is the best policy
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You may regret what you did, and despite what some others have said, it is because you have morals.......but you cheated for a reason that you may not even know or understand right now. I personally think that instead of closing off to what happened you need to take a good look at how things played out and what you were thinking in that moment cause you may not want this relationship as badly as your telling yourself you do; which is okay btw. They are right you, are young and you will change so much in the next few years, that what you want right now may be very different to what you want when you are ready to make a permenant commitment. If you dont want this relationship to last, telling him will only free your conscience and make you feel better, but if you want to keep the relationship, you already know that telling him is right for you or you wouldn't have asked this question whether you want to tell him or not. He may end the relationship, which is his right, but if he doesn't end it, you have to be undestanding that he will have a hard time trusting you and you have to patiently be open with him while that trust is being earned.
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I cheated on my girlfriend a while back... I was scared to tell her at first but I told myself that if I were in her position, I would want to know the truth. Just tell him what happend and that it was a mistake you regret and won't make ever again and if he loves you, he'll forgive you. Good luck!
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If he cheated on you, would you want him to tell you or would you prefer he just go along pretending nothing is wrong while continuing to lie and betray you?
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if he love you he will not leave you and be with you..
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NO! You messed up, why hurt his feelings? Just don't do it again.
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why did you cheat in the first place?
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I dont even know! I just got carried away with a friend when i was at his house... I regretted straight after..
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then yu have to come clean with your boyfriend, but o be honest, I will not blame him if he dos not tust you again, I hope you both will be able to sort this out
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You can't make it any worse by telling him.
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YOu are so young..why stick with someone at that age..
Tell him, ..at that age, and with his boys, he will probably, hit you.
Study, read, go on with your education..You will meet many many people..then, you can decide who you would want to spend your life with.Like (2)
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Thanks, but i've been with him for 3 years... dont just want to let him go...
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Make plans for your college years to be spent in another city..13, is too young to..fall in love, forever..growing up together, rarely lasts forever.
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Yes. He needs to know who you really are, since that's who he's supposed to be in a relationship with. If the only way you can stay together is by hiding behind masks and lies, then you don't belong together.
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No..just never do it again and if you're tempted to then break up with him. If you tell him now he will never trust another female again.
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thanks for the advice.. :)
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no
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Yes...and then if he doesn't dump you, you should leave him as the trust will be gone.
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Definately not....Even if he tells you he cheated.
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Most of the time, people confess this sort of thing in an attempt to alleviate guilt feelings. If you plan on staying with him, DON'T do it again and DON'T tell him. Is your feeling better about it worth him feeling hurt and possibly never trusting you - and future girls - again? It's not fair to unburden yourself by placing it on him!
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If you really care about him, tell him. & if you want to work things out you have to prove that he can trust. Because it's soooo hard to have a relashionship without trust.
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he truth shall set you free.
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by 1ocean1Love1Life Dec 11th, 2012 at 1:47PM
Yes, honesty is one of the most important keys to a successful relationship. He will appreciate it more (not saying he will forgive you) but It needs to be done
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