We can not change our past actions. Realize this and accept it. Once you have come to terms with your past by accepting the fact change your future by deciding to act differently. As you slowly transform into a different acting person the powerful hold that your past seems to presently have on you will dissipate and eventually fade away all together - haunting you no longer. This is not easy and will require a great deal of conscientious effort but the payoff is wonderful.

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& how do U know the ones you've hurt have not moved on?

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You try to make it up to the people you have hurt. If that is not possible, say that you are truely sorry and go about your life. You will feel a lot better if you do things to help other people...even just visiting elderly folks who have no-one, reading to them and having a nice chat. Save a dog from a shelter and take nice long walks. You are not what you did in the past. We all make mistakes and we all have the power to become better people. Don't be so hard on yourself. I wish you a happier life. :)

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A lot depends on what you did. And it's also worth considering....is your pain about your victims, or are you making it about yourself? I looked at your groups- there's a bit there that seems to indicate that you have a victim mentality. I could be off ba<x>se, but it could be that you have depression and are a bit wrapped up in what you need and how your life is lacking. Are you sure it's all guilt or regret over what you have done? <br />
There comes a point when the punishment we inflict on ourselves is no good...it doesn't make amends for what we did, and it doesn't make us better people. It just means wallowing in our own squalor. Only you can decide to use your life for better things. Only you can decide to do whatever things you can to undo what you've done and to clean up your act and move forward so you aren't doing more damage- either to yourself or someone else. You have to decide.

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Resolve not to hurt anyone anymore and start a new life far from those you have offended. Move on.

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I'm sure you didn't do anything worse than the rest of us Human's....remember...there's nothing new under the sun...it's all been done before, only just not to you....how can you move forward if you're still looking at the past....let it go....ask for forgiveness and let it go...

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Look, you are gonna have to 4give yourself. Resolve to not doing these things again, and consider them as lessons learned. You can't unring a bell. But you can live & learn.

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We cannot prevent what we cannot predict

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You could find everyone you hurt and tell them how sorry you are repent for your sins and ask for forgiveness people do bad things but it's not about what you have done before it's about what you do now that you know mistakes are part of life when those situations are presented again you should have a different response than the first time

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