Ive lost my virginity.i gave him my first time when his first time has given to another.I feel something.how?
4 Answers to "Ive lost my virginity.i gave him my first time when his first time has given to another.I feel something.how?"
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You gave him a gift that you can only give to one person. It was special. He was not able to give you that same gift. You feel disappointed and sad about it maybe? But you made the decision and have to live with it and hope he will live up to it and treasure what you gave him
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Rack that up and shoot again? This time in English.
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didn't know what kind of guy you were sleeping with?or are you that young that you dont have a good judge of character yet?
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Posted by openNhonest 1 Dec 27th, 2011 at 8:59PM
You have your values and standards and he has his. Virginity to you was important for your reasons, but in his case, it wasn't.
I mean, it's not as if he knew you and made some promise on the day he was born, each of you are different individuals, each of you has grown and developed in different environments, this has given each of you different priorities.
What you need to do is study him for the person he is, the way he treats and respects the individual you are, how he encourages and accepts who you are, how he doesn't try to change who you are, and that works both ways.
Virginity is nothing on the scale of importance in this life, it's something almost all will lose, but it shouldn't change who you are, nothing should, and if ever you feel something may do that, run away as fast as you can, because you are the best person you will ever know, you must protect yourself from the harm of others, because you need to be able to rely on yourself, before others.
I hope, if you are now sexually active that you are practicing safe sex, because your health and the consequences of a baby, are something you really do not want dumped upon you in an unplanned way, life is hard enough without burdens like that.
Stay safe and be happy, life is a bumpy road.
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