I've never had a Gf not even a Date, How come Women never like me but they like all the other guys?
I always see people and they have GF. In church tons of married people, in schools all the guys have GFs or at least female friends. At work (when i had work) i would see women my age married and guys all had GFs or wives.
At work always the girls went with tht talkative or playboy type guys.
I'm quiet and not smart and not a good speaker. Women never approach me nor they seem interested.
anyways i never even had a date much less a GF.
Do women just not like me cause most women like talkative outgoing guys?
ps i have speaking problem due to head trauma and i dont chatter and stuff i can't do that i dont have nothing to say.
Anyways, i'm just saying all the guys i see/meet they always have a girl . And all the girls i see meet always have a guy. There just isn't anyone who likes me. It's interesting. but oh well.
i dont knowo how i iwll ever have a girl.
i'm male in my 30s
7 Answers to "I've never had a Gf not even a Date, How come Women never like me but they like all the other guys?"
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Hey man don't be sad,same here pal. Now i find myself interesting,i can actually give good relationship advice or just advice in general,but i can never use my own for some reason. Anyways, i suggest going for an ugly girl, why you ask,well you see, in my observations in the world i notice that most pretty girls are self centered and consider a precious jewel of some sort who often say to themselves "man he is so lucky to be with me" where as an ugly girl says "god I'm so lucky to be with him" and they would most likely get with you for one and stay with you if you treat them right
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some people doesnt see whats infront of them until its gone
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Girls likely don't approach you because you give off the Aura of 'unapproachable'
Try going to places you like to be at. NOT where you think they mostly are. Seek groups listed at your library. Find where people meet, Join a cause, Walk for Breast Cancer.
There are better things for you to do. Sounds like you are a shy guy. AND do not over look the girls who look to be shy. She wont be sitting with a group of friends. Likely not the best looking in the bunch. Walk up and ask, "What book are you reading. Tell me about it."
This is a great line to use at your local Library.Like (1)
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Maybe you're shy...and they are also shy... and so this lowers the probability or interaction. You have to get more comfortable asking a girl to coffee or a movie or something nice. You can do it...but only ask the girls that seem nice and that you'd like...not the ones that are just really really pretty.
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If you're quiet you don't get laid. Simple as that. Women are not interesting proactive creatures that seek to get to know you. They are spoiled princesses that expect to be entertained and waited upon.
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Whoa! Ego much? Holy cow man, really that's what you think of your women?
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Every single one of them, except one. All the rest would never think of talking to a guy first, would never take a guy out on a date, would never do anything proactive. That's women. If you're the quiet guy you get all the **** about "when you're not looking....." or "You're such a nice guy, you'll make a wonderful bf someday" but it's all ****. If you have female "friends" its because those female found you unattractive.
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Read something interesting, like 'The Book of One'. You'll then have something to talk about. Find someone with similar interests on a dating website. Read 'The Power of Now' instead of living in the past and fearing the future. Having a partner really isn't all its cracked up to be.
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Posted by gooseyloo 1 Jan 5th, 2013 at 11:33AM
I think most guys have one of 2 things going for them. Either they come across very confident, so they get the girls easily irl...or they come off sensitive and are easily able to talk to women (for example online chatting). Some even do both. Your best bet is to meet women online, IMO, so they get to know you before you actually meet. That way they will be interested in YOU and not just looking for a flashy playboy. Most of all, be yourself.
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