I know I have to trust my own intuition with this. It's a huge decision! The thing is, I do not trust recruiters as far as I can throw them! I know they are going to glorify the crap out of it and probably leave out any negative aspects. So I'd like to talk to someone who maybe has been in it before, especially a fellow woman. I worry about getting raped as it seems so common for military women. I also worry that because I'm not patriotic.. like at all it might really go against my morals and if I get deployed to war Imma freak the hell out. But what if I'm a secretary, or a chef type of thing? I need a new start in my life and this seems legit but I just dont knowww.