Know any parents who say "well, she's just different" about their painfully self-segregated child?
Not your normal teen angst situation. You have known the family for years, long enough to know when the kid started to drift out into the deep water while still in grade school. And you just know that it won't just be high school that will suck for that kid, it will be the rest of her life? You know because you have seen this before.