Ladies and Gents what would you do if you feel like you're just a product?
Ok so theres this guy I've been dating is someone I really really like and probably has been the only person ever that I've connected with & has a lot in common with than any guy I've been with. Lately & I guess I was being indenial, but I'm starting to feel like a product to him & everything isn't good enough for him with the things I do. Like for one thing we haven't slep together which i think is good that I want to wait & him agreeing. Since then he's been asking for me to do things that's totally out of my element in which I'm not comfortable doing such as taking all these nude pictures & doing these videos of me rubbing myself or whatever. Like I have asked for nude pics of him & he sent it and I sent 2 in return. Now seems like thats more of a topic than anything, like he always wants them, and wants them done a certain way, and now a video. Like I feel like it's one thing for me to do something I'm uncomfortable with and sending it, but it's another when what I sent is like well do it like this or do it like that or that wasn't right. That's kinda working my ******* nerves bcuz u already asking me to do something I don't want to do and then telling me that u appreciate what I did, but it wasn't done in a certain way. Another thing is his bday just passed and I spend like the whole day before taking professional sexy shots, nude, but u couldn't see anything, like it was more like this picture http://www.whatsonningbo.com/ent1333.html of kate upton. So I took those pictures and wrote a song and made it into a video for him singing a happy birthday version song. I do go on record to say I was the 1st to say happy bday and sent it at exactly 12a.m. Anyway he like it said he appreciated it, but then hit me with the "do me a live video of you rubbing on your self with baby oil and shaking my *** and all that crap." Like that's not me. I'm not nobody's ******** & I feel like what he normally dates which he have a ******** and other, I'm just not that and it seems like he's making me into something I'm not. Like I'm so uncomfortable with this, that even though I like him and he says the same, I'm not going to be a character in a relationship. If I cant be me, then why bother.