Non its not OK!
I think it depends how much you expect from someone in a casual relationship with you. Unless you've told her you want her to be exclusive to you and unless she's agreed, then she should be free to date others just as you are.
Having said that, if a girl is willing to go that far with you without really having any relationship commitment she probably has no problem having that kind with multiple partners.
If you're serious about a monogamous relationship then it's important that you say that to the girl and let her know that you're making a commitment to be monogamous with her. Then if you've both promised to remain exclusive and monogamous and you're being faithful but you find that she is not, then i understand you perfectly and agree with you.
Then what are you talking about? I'm confused. Can you just clarify something for me...............are you dating multiple females with all the benefits..............but you find it 'unattractive' if they are doing the exact, same thing as you?
ok..........but you still have me at arm's length here and not answering my question. ..............just give me a yes... or a no..............:
'are you seeing several women at the same time and 'suiteing' them?
(*I'm assuming by "suite" you mean foreplay or light petting).
Okay. Then I understand and I would 'drop them like a hot potato' too. Only thing is, even it's only for a short time, you both need to know that's what you've both decided to do for the time being.
i suppose it is okay if you two are not "exclusive".. personally i date one person at a time. but maybe that's just me..
While dating multi guys or girls does its good benefits but overall that's a player and it's hard work keeping up with all dates. It's like cheating on one another whether intimate or not. It's best to date one at a time and have others as strictly platonic friendships. So to speak, drop her like a hot potatoe is the right way to go.
I think it's ok if you aren't having sex with them and the relationships are casual
You're right to feel the way you do and as long as neither of you have made some kind of commitment you are both free to see who you like but this light foreplay would certainly put me off as she's clearly not really thinking about anyone else's feelings but her own. Sounds like a bit of an attention seeker to me.
Why do you think someone can only date you .. if you're not in a committed relationship with her??? If someone wants to date more than one person at a time .. it's their choice. "Dating" isn't owning someone.
That sounds like something someone from the 50's would think. I don't think most men think that way anymore. And, if a woman would think that a guy should only be dating her .. he'd laugh that off.