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soon would you expect them to disclose that detail with you (short lived mistake that they made in their 20's)?

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  1. thelongwait - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by thelongwait Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:53AM

    I think it would be reasonable to say a few dates.. I mean some people are more private than others... people get divorced you know, like all the time... like most of the people I know. it is just this common thing we have going on... if they weren't divorced then they were just out of a long ****** relationship. I don't see how old you are but, I mean if you have that standard and it is a deal breaker for you then you should just find out that info upfront before you start liking them because if not then you will just cave in and they will be taking advantage of you in no time

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  2. whatizmu - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by whatizmu Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:51AM

    Depends on how things progress. I think people who vomit their entire life story right away are scary and prone to drama. I like to see some boundaries, and some healthy attitudes. A person who cannot stop talking about their past and their ex would worry me.

    So, not too early, and not too late. :)

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  3. 333cookies - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by 333cookies Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:53AM

    I agree too! Though in my experience, the longer you wait, the harder it gets to spit out the truth sometimes, and then one starts to wonder if the person will feel like you roped them in and deceived them.

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  4. whatizmu - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by whatizmu Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:56AM

    It is true. It is a balance. :)

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  5. Greenfemale - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Greenfemale Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:55AM

    He probably really wanted to maintain a relationship with you and telling you straight away that he is divorced my scare you away so he may wait. Also it is something he regrets in his past, he may not want to bring it up as he is not proud of it and feels it isn't important enough to have an affect on your relationship.
    Or he is OK with keeping secrets and lying as something like this needs to be said at the beginning of a relationship. ( I would hate the thought of a detail like that being kept until later on) You only know which one that it's most likely to be as you know him best.

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  6. Mariner2 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Mariner2 Feb 11th, 2012 at 10:49AM

    I think that would come when he feels comfortable enough with you to share. I'm sure it's not something he is proud of.

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