Gotta have some back bone :)
or at least some BONE - lol
What I mean is - we want to be able to respect the other person and see them on a mutual wave-length, it's not going to happen if the guy is sickeningly nice and agrees with everything we say and fusses around us.
Are you so nice that you forget about you and your own needs? Are you so nice that you forgive far too much, which in turn lowers the respect you have for yourself and that they have for you? <br />
There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy.... just make sure you're not so nice that someone takes advantage of you.
If you think you're getting dumped for being "too nice", you're misinterpreting the reasons. These women are certainly not evaluating you as a partner and saying to themselves, "Gee, he's got all these qualities I admire and we're compatible in X, Y, and Z, but ... the problem is that he's just *Too Nice*, and that's a dealbreaker for me." That's not their interpretation of the reasons they broke up with you, and unless you state specific examples, we can't really help you. (I'm sure some posters will comment that "It's because women are crazy and want bad guys" but that's just because they want to simplify it and not take an honest look at their own flaws/mistakes.)
lots of girrls like bad boys
Cheeky and a little bit mean does the job sometimes. Always keep the women guessing :)
I was seeing a guy, he was quiet and attentive and I had to do all the talking.. he was nice, don't get me wrong, but me being with him required a lot of energy..
just google things things you could talk about on a date and bring them up at random.. Could be nice, different.. You know there is this saying "the first impression is always the last" .. But don't make it sound like an interview :P
yeah sometimes you just want some answers.. i hope you find love soon x
Swallow some concrete and harden up