There's a very attractive black man in my town who has braided dreads past his bum. Added to his lovely skin, gorgeous smile and pretty brown eyes, he's very attractive IMO.
Grow your hair, if you don't like it, get it cut again. No harm, no foul. Good luck :)
I'd date him if I were interested in people that way (I'm asexual). If you do grow your hair, it may be a way to start a conversation with girls - I've spoken to the man in question a few times, mostly commenting on his hair (it really is beautiful) and I find it breaks the ice.
I think your problem is the shyness. Do you find it hard to talk to everyone, or just females?
((((hugs)))) It's difficult sweetie. The best advice I can give you (from experience. Believe it or not, I was shy once) is fake it 'til you make it. Take an interest in people, ask them questions about themselves. Humans are egoists and it will keep a conversation going, break the ice and hopefully kick your social life into gear. Take up the boxing, if that's what you want to do, ask they guys at the gym for tips, get a rapport going. It will get easier, but you'll have to work at first.
Haha, thank you ;) You'll get there, job corps is a start. And you come across as a nice guy, you can keep a conversation going and I'm sure you have hobbies and interests that you can chat to people about. I wish you the best x
Maybe your job corps will open up some new interests. Find out what you like doing before you start finding out about others - start a new hobby, don't be scared to try new things and maybe join some clubs that will let you meet people.
Nut up son
Well you never know if you never go huh?
dont let it grow passed your shoulders and you'll be fine
yes yes of course, i know it sounds cheesy but if a girl wants you they dont care what you look like! dont worry about not having a girlfriend.
Your hair has nothing to do with it really, I found if i surround myself with strangers one of them is bound to become my friend some day...