Just do it. My wife's brother didn't want us to be together because of my nationality and because of how sexy I am, but we still decided to be together and we are completely in love.
If I was an adult and we were in love and wanted to get married ... I think I would marry him anyway. Our marriage is our business. I would be sorry if the families didn't approve .. but if we were sure it was right for us ... we would get married.<br />
I have a feeling if our families saw how happy we were ... they would come around and be happy too.
Flip a coin
Sit on it
I'd give him the flick,if he hasn't got the *balls* to stand up to the family,he won't be much of a husband for you.
I think he wants to marry you not them,and spend the rest of his life with you,*Not them* So he has to decide one way or the other.