No way to know....I never looked back.....all i know is that I have three great kids that have been my greatest joy and blessing. That's enough for me.
My HS BF, heck yeah! He's divorced(his fault) and rarely gets to see his kids cause his ex wife met someone new and moved far away. No surprise here at the mess he has made his life. My college BF, not sure. I know he is married and has a kid but otherwise dunno. I hope he's happy. I am.
No idea, not really interested in too many of them. And the one or two that I would be interested in, I wish only the best.