Looking good clothed but not naked.... how much does it matter?

A man might have a preference of his own for lights on vs. off, but there's a pretty good chance that, by the time he gets you naked, he'll have decided how attractive he thinks you are. The rest is icing :)

You probably wouldn't be surprised at how big an effect clothing can have on a woman's appearance. If you know what makes you look good (at least to your own sense of aesthetics), you can play all sorts of games with it.

But then, I've never actually SEEN a naked woman all at once, so I'm really just speculating.

How could someones lover not look good naked to them?

To my understanding, when you look at any human being (male or female) you are looking at the physical sign of the presence of a (potentially) MAGNIFICENT Universe Being.

So whether you see a magnificent universe Being or a slob when she is naked depends upon how shallow your awareness is!
Need I say more? I don't think so!

naked is also an emotional state.
when you're naked and confident, nobody cares what you look like.
Remember that making love is about engaging all five senses.
Sight is just one of them and probably the most unreliable.

everyone looks good naked i am going to start a nudist camp lol

Everybody looks good naked if you want to feel them and be intimate...it's emotional love that should attract, not a body. I have had 6 lovers, each was a different shape, but I desired them all.

It doesn't matter.

Images of clothed women are processed in the man's cerebral cortex.

Images of naked women are not processed in the man's brain at all. (They are processed in other parts of his anatamoy.)

So, by the time the man sees the woman naked, mister willy is already in full control. Mister willy is preprogrammed with only one objective, and it's NOT to judge a person's physical appearance.

So I believe this question is irrelevant.

Not much. i agree with Scooby

Clothing is nice. Naked is nicer.

Sounds like this woman has self-esteem issues.

For an eye opening experience, go to a nude resort or beach, one that has all ages not just the hot young people.

wow..just wanted to say,i love the comments on this..especially redwings...just awesome!

Gee we weren't born with clothes !

NUDE is NATURAL

HOWEVER WE LOOK!

It never mattered to me. I always thought that having the confidence to stand infront of someone naked for the first time, with the lights on, is so sexy!

So long as your not extremely over the top just messed up crazy weird looking naked then it doesn't matter. I mean I'm talking like circus freak status, which I'm sure you aren't.

Doesn't matter much to me.

It depend on the circumstances.....If it for sexual reasons, then my opinion can be lessend or boosted. (by the way, my wife is no 'Playboy' playmate or 'Sports Illustrated' swimsuit model but she looks fantastic to me. And I have seen other women who were considered "plain", "average", "unattractive" that I thought were very pretty and sexy before). If it is from a nudist/naturist standpoint, I havent seen a single "ugly" woman (or man for that matter). You dont have to "measure up" to any standards or expectations....just be yourself and be comfortable/confident with yourself and you will see that alot more people will accept and like you just as you are than what you think.

It doesn't matter to me just as long as she's naked. Being naked has a lot of freedoms ie.. nothing to hide, no lies and the best part is that hopefuly you are naked too!! Right BV!! Good example I don't know if any of you remember BV's friend Pumpkin Girl. Wow what great art!!!!