Lost a child recently... I just wanna disappear but I'm married and can't. I'm lost
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Posted by xuan1218 Oct 19th, 2011 at 11:11AM
I understand your sorrows. I pray you can manage through this.....
Many people split up following losing a child, it is generally understandable.
Sometimes great losses like this create unhealthy relationships for husbands and wives. Leaving may actually help you two getting your personally space back and help you heal better.
Being together can mean 2 things: mutual support or guilt and blame. Instead of helping each other heal and get over the pain, husbands and wives may turn against each other. In that case it may be very harmful to both. Since you feel the need to leave, it may be the best choice.
Hope you come to a healthy solution. If you fear divorce, maybe consider a short term leave to help you time to grieve and heal.
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Posted by janeyc Oct 19th, 2011 at 11:18AM
I think you need some help with your grief, please talk to your Dr and arrange to see a councellor, I know that you feel lost and grief stricken now, but with help you will start to feel better, grief is the worst emotion you can go through and you can often feel lost and suicidal, I urge you to seek some help and wish you all the best.
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Posted by LG76 Oct 19th, 2011 at 11:05AM
((((hugging you tight))))
As a mother, I'm not even going to try and image what you're going through. Just know that I'm terribly sorry for you loss and am praying for your peace and comfort in time.
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Posted by AutumnSwan Oct 19th, 2011 at 10:48AM
I'm so sorry for this horrible loss. Maybe a break by yourself to spend a little time to grieve in your way, without others hovering would help, but I would encourage you to find a support group upon your return.
My heart goes out to you. Please take very good care of yourself.
Wishing you peace, strength and sending Blessings~
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Reply by Need2talk2 Oct 19th, 2011 at 10:58AM
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Posted by alteredego Oct 19th, 2011 at 3:56PM
I'm so sorry for you. I can't imagine anything worse than losing a child. I would say that you should seek out a professional counselor that can help you navigate your way through such a devastating loss and the grief. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Posted by ravmsp Oct 19th, 2011 at 11:09AM
Its a Natural Phenominon..a situation, no body escapes from..Time solves this.
Never be alone. Be with close friends, and Relatives. be occupyed with some work,
Beleive in yourself.
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Posted by PureOne3 Oct 19th, 2011 at 10:55AM
The pain & feelings will never go away, but will become manageable over time. You will meet the child's Soul-sSelf Again, for this is An Enclosed-Sealed System. So, do not worry... You are only seperated 'for a little while.' Be Strong, for Life needs You.
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Posted by billyjoweme Oct 19th, 2011 at 10:48AM
You will find no answers here, only in The Holy Bible.
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Reply by Need2talk2 Oct 19th, 2011 at 10:57AM
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