only if your family's against your having a life.
The answer is there on your question, Bro.
But you know, you raise your children to become independent and to live their own lives. It hurts terribly when a child begins to pull away from the family and starts to build his/her own world. I have to remind myself that it's what I wanted for my child, and that I'll really always be a part of his life. I'll just have a different role in it.