Arranged marriage is so old fashion. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. You should be given the freedom to find your own love though.
Love. No need for marriage. Arranged marriage is slavery by another name.
whatever works. many time arranged marrages last a life time where as 50% of people now adays its pseudo love with a lust backer. people that say "lighten up" are the most hardened and really need to just lighten up themselfs.
so again i say... whatever works
both are bullshit...