Resolved Question

I have known this guy since 2 years and we have been on and off in a relation. Even though we aren't serious he keeps disappearing. And then he msgs again or calls. Just recently he returned from living abroad and he msgd me to meet. I tried to play it cool but the trouble is I really love him. And he says he loves and adores me and wishes we were married and so on. Being intelligent i say to myself, you dumb woman he is just playing! But considering that we dont really have sex often and that im not the only beautiful woman he can be with im really puzzled...im so frustrated and I just dont know what to do or think anymore..he hasnt communicated in 2 days even though our last conversation was very good and he again repeated he loves me and only me and that he would be proud if i were his wife...i have tried to forget him many times before and get over but I just cant...he says he is afraid of love...what sahll i do???

i think your being played. if you want to call his bluff propose to him. if not move on you deserve better.