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Madly and deeply in love with bestfriend's ex and he feels the same, let him go and torn inside, good idea?

friend broke up with her ex(2.5yrs)last november.she still loved him.i started workin@the same place as him n we became good friends,@the time wen she dumped him i was both of their friend.wen she broke up with him she told me 2 be ther 4 him.i was uneasy with it but she was adamant.2weeks after she dumped him his bestfriend died n i was all he had left.i became his bestfriend(not on purpose)but i jus rly felt for him.we started sharing our pasts,we come from similar backgrounds n could relate 2 each other.we fell in love n it came 2 surface around March,but i didnt want 2 go ahead with it coz it jus didnt feel right,but he persisted,he wanted2let me go coz he saw how torn i was but he felt as tho we r ment 2be.i'm the girl of his dreams n he cant see himself without me.But i remained true and was unable to get over the guilt alredy,never felt like this b4.we have been close n that makes me feel so guilty.im not takin it any further but i dont knw if im making the biggest mistake ever
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Posted Aug 16th, 2009 at 6:53PM
Yes you are! ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR HEART! you will regret it if you don't. You will always ask what if? and that just sux. You don't want to look back and say I should have.
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Posted Aug 16th, 2009 at 7:00PM
I know that the girl is your friend but its sounds like you are letting true love and happiness go. You are #1 so go for it babes and just tell your friend or write her a letter if thats easier.

You have no idea how hard it is to find true love and happiness.
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Posted Aug 16th, 2009 at 7:14PM
You need to live your own life and life is to short to please everyone but yourself.
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Posted Aug 16th, 2009 at 8:14PM
Talk honestly with your best friend about your feelings. In the end, if it comes to best friend or love, either decision will be painful and lasting.
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Posted Aug 17th, 2009 at 12:48PM
He and your friend are through why **** up a good thing? Hell I would grab him while you can.
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