You are right. Many people think to get rid of their problems they need to get divorced, instead of working it out. So true.
Having a healthy and thriving marriage takes work and skill. Getting counseling can help individuals who truly want to change and grow. It's just better to seek counseling, before the marriage falls completely apart. Yelling and nagging will never help. That's just plain dysfunctional.
My husband and I have been together 10 years. I made lots of mistakes my first marriage and so did my ex-husband. It is very sad that we chose divorce because we had a child together. But I am very happy now and love my husband very much and, he, I.
Most people in todays society, are looking for instant gratification and constant euphoric happiness. That is not what marriage is about.
What if they don't have children??? Still not grown up?
:) some people have no children and want out of their marriage too. Some children more grown up (mentally) than any married person sometimes are childish in the brain... O.0 I talk gibberish nm *sigh :(
i'm still here aren't i?
i'm still married....26 years....
This another one of those question where you're just looking for our "opinion"?
No, I'll pass. You have no idea what you'll do until it happens.