absolving resentment/spite/anger. Not for his sake, but for your own.
You should be planning to stay married until your kids are grown. Bearing and raising children is a 20 year committment. Its time to stop playing musical beds.
go see a p o r n star,lol
Ask yourself this: On a scale of 1-10, how big of a scumbag is your husband? If the answer is above 4, it's not worth it.
If he cheated on you, then the ball is in your court. If you cheated on him, then he gets to make that decision.