Married women, A friend you have had for 7 years suddenly reveals that they are in love with you? see more details
So I have had this friend for 7 years he is a family friend. He recently has experienced a major tragedy in his family and decided to have a YOLO moment on me I guess. I was trying to tell him that maybe if he was in a serious relationship with a nice girl it would help him with his grieving process. He revealed that he has had no serious relationships because he is in love with me and he cannot live with deceiving another woman knowing his feelings for me. He never admitted this because I am married and have children and didn't want to be disrespectful to that or potentially lose my friendship because of it. My side of it is younger, unmarried me would have considered this guy a soul mate he is definitely my ideal mate. The catch is I have a mate that I picked 10 years ago so I kind of have to sleep in the bed I've made. What should I do though with this information?