Me and my bf don't know when the long distance will close, I love him but am considering break up
We've been in a happy relationship for over a year but he's having financial problems and can't fly over, I last saw him nearly 9 months ago. I don't know how much longer I can bear it. Closing the distance forever is indefinite as well, I just started uni and it would require me dumping it, getting a visa and moving over to the US, then getting a green card (marriage?). He even said he would allow us to make the relationship open so I could meet other people but neither of us is cut out for this and I know it won't help, I love only him. The distance is the ONLY issue but it's a big one and it can't be removed. Should I break up?