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Men, be honest. you're not REALLY looking for a strong woman, are you? it seems you can't handle me at all.....

the last portion was a joke. i'm not looking to be handled. and anyway, if i wanted a handler, it would be my current boyfriend:-P

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15 Answers to "Men, be honest. you're not REALLY looking for a strong woman, are you? it seems you can't handle me at all....."

  1. SpilledSecrets - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by SpilledSecrets Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    I think it would depend. Some men want subservient women and are intimidated by strong women. Some prefer stronger women who don't cling to them like children for every decision they make. And some women mistake being strong with being an overbearing ***** and nobody wants her.

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  2. SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by SpiritOfTheRabbit Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    Explanation: Nailed it.

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  3. Pussykat0419 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Pussykat0419 Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:16AM

    This is how I role. I'm very strong in the since that I can get through anything at all! Very very Independent. Don't look for my guy to wipe my tears everytime I cry or feel whiney, I hold it back (besides those times when you just need ur man) however, though I'm independent I do recognize that my guy is the man in the relationship and I kinda just let him think he runnin the show. U gotta let a man be the man! If u don't ... Well who wants to feel like they w some weak *** sissy guy. There's something to be said for strong man muscles and a hairy chest! How silly it would look if u bossed one of those guys around! Especially me in only 5'2.

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  4. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:18AM

    this is precisely what i meant, in fact! thank you for wording it so well. i believe a truly strong woman will 1. choose a strong man, and 2. make a strong man stronger. "i'm a movement by myself, but i'm a force when we're together".

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  5. lagatta - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by lagatta Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:46AM

    It's hard finding a strong man these days. Where are they? .

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  6. EnYM - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by EnYM Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    No, I am not REALLY looking for anyone.

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  7. dunnowhattodoo - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by dunnowhattodoo Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    Strong, Sassy, and Bitchy are three very different things with very different tolerance levels

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  8. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:01AM

    do you tolerate any of the 3?

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  9. dunnowhattodoo - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by dunnowhattodoo Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    The first one and the second one to an extent. Bitchiness is almost as bad as general stupidity. Or chronic lieing

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  10. Dave748 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Dave748 Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:56PM

    I like strong, intelligent women.

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  11. BeenSmiling - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BeenSmiling Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:09AM

    I can handle you with only one hand if you allow me to.

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  12. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:11AM

    thank you for the last part of that statement

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  13. BeenSmiling - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by BeenSmiling Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:16AM

    (;

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  14. SelfishIfIThinkOfMyself - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by SelfishIfIThinkOfMyself Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    Or maybe you just can't handle me putting you in your place? And just what place is that you might ask? A place that feels secure and happy, a place that scares the crap outta you because you don't know if this joy will last! Thus your fear kicks in and you sabotage the whole thing!!! Or maybe I just don't want to admit that your probably right, so sue me.

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  15. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:00AM

    lollll the more you talk, the more honest you are. mama liiiike.

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  16. VillaZanders - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by VillaZanders Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    i can handle you, girl.

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  17. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:01AM

    my boyfriend might handle you for saying that, boy:-P

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  18. VillaZanders - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by VillaZanders Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:04AM

    I'll take care of him and take extra special care of you.

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  19. mikeysezspeakup - 51-55 years old

    Posted by mikeysezspeakup Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    I like women like I like my coffee: Strong.

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  20. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:02AM

    strong coffee also tends to keep one up at night;)

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  21. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Posted by toistory Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:57PM

    That's not true.

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  22. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:59PM

    which part?

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  23. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Reply by toistory Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:09AM

    I prefer strong women.

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  24. Rennn - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Rennn Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:56PM

    Some of us are, some aren't. And there's a relatively fine line between strong and aloof, imo.

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  25. energeez - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by energeez Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:55PM

    no i love strong women cause they don't call you after you have sex with them

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  26. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:58PM

    lmao oh gawd, you're one of THOSE

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  27. PixieCutLover - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by PixieCutLover Mar 5th, 2013 at 1:08AM

    I'm just looking for a woman who sees herself as my equal and doesn't buy into the phony gender roll crap.

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  28. Freefromevil - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Freefromevil Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:03AM

    Just dont want a woman who want to lead simply because she dont want to be lead. If the pilot is dead and you have flight experiance, by all means you fly the plane. Ill step back. But if not . Shut up and let me do what i do.

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  29. bahawk79 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by bahawk79 Mar 4th, 2013 at 11:57PM

    First of all, yes, I am looking for a strong woman. Second of all, you're inaccessible. Why would I even bother? Tres, that's Spanish for "three",honesty is the best policy. And finally, potato!

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  30. foldedunfolding - female

    Reply by foldedunfolding Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:00AM

    i have a boyfriend, so yes, i am inaccessible, but im curious how you knew that?

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  31. bahawk79 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by bahawk79 Mar 5th, 2013 at 12:02AM

    I just assume you do. All women have boyfriends, whether they actually do or not.

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