Men: does it make you uncomfortable when a woman expresses how she feels about you?

maybe not so much for you guys that are in long term relationships, but guys who have recently started dating someone or have been with the person for, lets say, 6 months or so. would it bother you if she told you how she felt about you?

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Not at all. As a guy, I feel communication and understanding in a relationship is key, and telling each other how you fell about one another is key to that. That way everyone's feelings are on the table, and you know how to move forward (or not) and there are no surprises. Too often relationships become guessing games.

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Other 18 Answers to Men: does it make you uncomfortable when a woman expresses how she feels about you?

DarkangelTherian	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 12:21AM I wouldn't say it's uncomfortable - it's just a big responsibility to live up to being the man she feels so much for. At least just my opinion Rated: +4Vote for this!
LonelyChef	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 4:45AM I'd be happy to hear the truth. Saves a lot of time wondering. Rated: +4Vote for this!
21stCenturySchizo idMan	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 4:45AM Yeah, my wife told me on the phone (when I first met her) that I had a sexy voice. It freaked me out so bad, that I didn't call her for a week. Then a month later I got drunk and told her that I love her. Go figure...... Rated: +4Vote for this!
zillaron	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 8:36AM It doesn't make me uncomfortable at all. What makes me uncomfortable is having to wonder and guess what they're thinking and feeling. Now that's scary! Rated: +3Vote for this!
emotional	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 5:51AM Im not male, but I would like to say. Of course men are not going to feel unfortable that a woman is giving him the L word. Hell! we would all love to hear it. But word to the wise, is he worth saying it to? Rated: +2Vote for this!
AdviceFromLizzie	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 6:02AM I'm not even sure if I'm allow to comment on this; (i dont care! LOL) but I LOVE THIS QUESTIONS FOR THE MEN TO ANSWER! LOL & even though I am a female, I really do agree with some men who say that it's kind of scary when the girls drop the L word a bit too early or anything early within few weeks of dating or whatever (: kiddos to everyone who responded to the question! Rated: +2Vote for this!
freeflowing	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 4:46AM ahh hell no. in fact I encourage it. but she better make sure she's not jumping to conclusions because that sh^&T burns the hell out out of me with some women. Rated: +2Vote for this!
UnidentifiedHobo	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 5:52AM Jeez. If only!!!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
Chance101	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 4:46AM It's this simple, nope. :) Rated: +2Vote for this!
musickin	Posted May 22nd, 2009 at 5:52AM Nope. Whether good or bad, I prefer to hear it. Might save some head scratching... Rated: +2Vote for this!
RubyTewes	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 6:03AM Six months?? I'm a woman, but I'd never wait that long to express my true feelings for a man. Life is too short to keep it a secret- whatever it is. If he's not comfortable with knowing then it's time to move on. Sorry guys :) Rated: +2Vote for this!
IcarusFalling	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 5:36PM No. I crave it. In fact, if I don't get it from my s/o, I'll look for it elsewhere. I think many men would agree... Rated: +1Vote for this!
dedre	Posted May 20th, 2009 at 7:14PM Only if she jumps forward a few spaces ahead of me and then tells me how she feels (I.e. breaks it off without giving much of a try, or after just a week acts like we're lovebirds of years); that's the only time it makes me uncomfortable, because I can't reciprocate properly. Rated: +1Vote for this!
LizardKing	Posted May 20th, 2009 at 6:57PM If she used to L word that early it might make me feel uncomfortable. Rated: +1Vote for this!
tyco313	Posted May 20th, 2009 at 7:26PM No I would feel flatterd... but I may feel uneasy if I didnt feel the same would it would all depend on the circumstance really. x Rated: +1Vote for this!
ELFINSONG	Posted May 20th, 2009 at 8:16PM If it's something good then no if bad yes....... smiles Rated: +1Vote for this!
CPAguy	Posted May 20th, 2009 at 11:12PM It does not make me uncomfortable as I prefer to know how she feels as that makes me feel more comfortable. Rated: +1Vote for this!
musicmad	Posted May 21st, 2009 at 2:50AM Sometimes you may deserve to feel uncomfortable. I appreciate honesty, so good, bad, ugly...whatever! Say whats on your mind. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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