Try to set the scene, candles, rose petals, music. Take my time with some nice foreplay, and then be slow and gentle. End with cuddling after.
Just as I did for the one time i was w/a virgin.I took her to a nice dinner then we went to a park over looking a valley or sorts and we sat on the hood of the car and talked while cuddling then we went to my place.She said it was as memorable and enjoyable as she could have hoped for.
By taking things nice and slow and using every trick in the book to make her Org*sm many times in many ways
I wouldnt , Id probably be dead taking a bullet for that stranger you mentioned